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How to Get Yourself Out of a Unmotivating Funk

get yourself out of a unmotivating funk

Recently, I’ve been feeling pretty unmotivated at work. You know that feeling when your to-do list is piling up, but you have zero energy or desire to tackle it? Yeah, that’s where I’ve been. And let me tell you, it’s a pretty awful place to be.

I feel like people don’t share openly enough when they’re going through things like this. So, I want to open up about my recent low and share 3 things I’m doing right now that are helping me come out of this depressive, unmotivating rut:

1. GETTING MY ENERGY MOVING AGAIN

Newton’s First Law of Motion states: “An object in motion stays in motion, and an object at rest stays at rest”

You can apply this concept exactly to your situation right now.

This means getting your body moving again, instead of being still and sinking deeper and deeper into lethargy and inertia.

What is one simple, easy move you can do today in your life?

I also asked myself: “What would be a nice, easy task to do this week to reconnect with my business, without the pressure?”

The answer? Writing this blog post openly and honestly. So here I am! And writing this post is DEFINITELY helping me to slowly get back into the groove of my tasks again.

Sometimes, when you can’t get yourself into the right mindset just yet, actions & habits can help get the ball rolling.

2. LETTING MYSELF BE SEEN BY OTHERS AND ACKNOWLEDGING WHERE I AM

When I started writing this post and sharing about my feelings in my podcast, something amazing happened.

The shame and guilt started to lose their power over me, and I no longer felt held back by my situation.

This is a practice I turn to every time I’m in a low place (and seriously, it works every time!).

By acknowledging and validating my feelings, I’m signaling to the Universe that before my role as a life coach/business owner/content creator, I’m human first and foremost (with my natural seasons and cycles).

I’m not just some random faceless number plugged into the system, forced to keep up with capitalism.

3. PUTTING MYSELF INTO SPACES/COMMUNITIES THAT INSPIRE + NOURISH ME

For me, this looks like putting my ass back into the client seat again and getting coached by my amazing mentors. (About time, Shirley!)

It also means remembering (again) to redirect my focus back to service and helping people, instead of going down the rabbit hole of “I’m not good enough” and “nothing is working.”

I’m also adding more novelty and exciting activities to my life. By filling up my own cup first, I can let that energy overflow into my work and business – when I’m ready.

Here’s my mantra for this week: Gentle. Easy. Forward.

Thank you so much for reading this post as I slowly come back.

I really appreciate you, and if you’re going through something similar, know that you’re definitely not alone.

Remember, it’s okay to have ups and downs. We’re all human, after all.

The key is to be gentle with yourself and take small steps forward, one simple move at a time.

154 – How to Step Out of Survival Mode

I’ve been embracing a new way of living lately – the LUSH lifestyle. One that’s filled with so much more flow, ease, abundance, and aliveness. Embracing this kind of life where you’re thriving requires you to step out of survival mode.

Inside today’s episode, I share all about what it means to let yourself step out of survival mode and how to embrace a new kind of normal in your life and business.

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148 – How to Quit Your Addictive Habit FOR GOOD

What’s one habit you want to quit, but you can never seem to do so? In this episode, I share my personal binging behavior journey with watching dramas and how it has affected my mental health. I discuss why it’s so hard for you to quit, how to know when it’s truly time to quit, and some practical steps to help you stop your addictive behavior, for good.

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— TIMESTAMPS —

00:00 Introduction

00:56 My Drama detox

02:21 Numbing vs. Enjoying Activities

04:18 Removing Shame Around the Habit

05:12 Understanding the “Why”

08:21 Your Body’s Intelligence

10:06 Brain’s Survival Instincts

10:39 Connect Habit to Pain

11:43 Long-term Effects of Habits

14:31 Habits Aren’t Small Things

21:24 Triggers for Habits

22:54 Breathing and Breaking the Circuit

24:01 Replace Habit with a New Activity

25:47 Changing Your Identity

26:34 Focusing on Positive Activities

28:05 Conclusion

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