Fall in love with your life and take actions from feeling enough

No more trying to prove yourself first, before living your dream life today

Overcome self sabotage so you can uplift yourself and the world

Hey, I’m Shirley 👋

Certified life coach, tea addict, artist/ content creator.

In my 5+ years working with high achieving entrepreneurial leaders and creatives, I’ve helped dozens and dozens of people overcome their insecurities and step out of trauma survival patterns...

... so they can finally achieve more in less time, find fulfilment, and infuse their daily life with so much more love, ease and joy.

I believe it is my calling to guide people through their liberation journey to decondition from internal systems of oppression so they can finally COME ALIVE & THRIVE.

I promise you, there is nothing wrong with you.

You also don’t need to work harder or try harder (you’ve truly done enough)

What you need is to devleop practical and intutive skills within so you can come back to what feels the move alive to you.

1:1 Life & Success Coaching

Custom made life coaching 1:1 package according to your goals and desires.

I facilitate transformation for people in the following areas:

🌊 Infusing your ideal lifestyle and routine into your busy, multipassionate life
🧠 Calm your chronic anxiety and overwhelm, for good
🚀 Improve your productivity and unclog your creativity, in a sustainable way
💫 Quantum leap into new heights & breakfree from old limitations in your career + business
❤️️ Fall deeper in love with yourself and your relationships

DIVE DEEPER WITH ME:

Ready to take the next step and explore what longer-term 1:1 support could look like for you?

➡️ Book a Discovery Session

Current private coaching packages start at:

  • 12 Sessions (approx 3~5 months) $1800 USD pay up front
  • or 4 monthly payments of $479 USD

Other package options available depending on your needs and length of support you're looking for. We can talk through what works best for you on the Discovery Session and create a plan that feels aligned for you.

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CLIENT LOVE

I always thought that overcoming my constant anxiety would take me years but after working with you for the past 6 months my life is so different! I actually can feel at peace and enjoy life as it comes instead of constantly being in fear. Even when I do have hard days now I know how to cope with it instead of spiraling like I used to. I’m proud of myself for making this big leap into life coaching. It was scary at first but I knew that I wanted to level up so that I can be ready to take on whatever comes my way. I think life coaching is like the fast pass in life! 

— Brittany T. from Houston, US

 

CLIENT LOVE

Shir has a very wise soul when you are speaking with her she has a nurturing spirit that is non judgmental,  you feel safe opening up to her. I was surprised being older that she would be able to relate or to have the experience to deal with “my issues” but this girl is like I said wiser beyond her years. I feel like she’s been doing this forever. I can’t stop saying enough nice things about her. She definitely found her calling in life and I’m so grateful she made the changes in her life to get here because I needed her! And trust me guys you will benefit from her too! You will love yourself for it.

 — Diane T. from San Diego, US

 

CLIENT LOVE

For years, I read every personal growth book on the market seeking the answer to a simple question: What is wrong with me?

I was stuck, unable to understand why I couldn't achieve the things I most desire in my life - a writing career, a thriving income, a strong sense of self-worth. I found some answers in those books, but it wasn't enough to know the answers. By working with Shirley, I have had the chance to LIVE the answers, to practice them, and to change my energy. I now have compassion for the very human part of my brain that believes it can keep me safe by repeating the same thoughts and routines.

In a few months of working with Shirley, I have experienced a shift in awareness that has led me to make BIG decisions and move toward the vision I have of myself as an author. 

— Stacey L. from Springfield, US

 

MORE CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

Sometimes we’re so occupied in our lives that we put our negative feelings aside...im so glad I did the session with you because you really helped me dig deeper into myself to find the root causes, and i learned more about myself and have gotten more clarifications after the session. the way you listened and coached is so powerful, and you’ve created such a safe space for me to talk, I'm really glad we had the session💚💚💚 

— Janice C. from Vancouver, CA

 

My experience working with daringliving has been amazing. The length of time and effort Shirley puts into each client is beautiful. She spent all her focus and presence on me whenever we had a meeting. Shirley is there to help you every step of the way. She really takes the time to know her clients, and what they need as individuals. Highly recommend. 

— Danielle C. from Vancouver, CA

 

This was my very first time trying a life coach program and I already knew in my 2nd call that my life gonna change. The worksheet she gave me after our call was so personalized and worked for me! But the best part for me was the call. The good things are in calls, she will investigate some points that I never thought of and point them out for me! (I just want to say that I felt like as if my mind is like a bunch of tangled yarn and she picked it out to be as it was again! So it’s not tangled anymore! So hard to translate this part 😂) It was such a great experience!✨👍

— Kaoru F. from Tokyo, Japan

I must have walked away with an insight or breakthrough after every session. Shirley has a way of asking questions that allow me to reflect and evaluate whether what I'm thinking is helpful or not, and she does it in a most compassionate and non-judgmental way. What is special about Shirley is that she maintains her equanimity and so what is reflected back is often my own thoughts, judgments, fears and anything that needs to be revealed, showing me what I need to see. The questions could sometimes be challenging but they always come from a place of wanting to help me be free and at peace with my thoughts and my decisions. I particularly love and appreciate the empowerment I experience after speaking with Shirley, and often it's a result of the work I've done with her on owning my decisions and having my own back.

— Kim T. from Toronto, CA

Working with Shirley have been an incredible journey. At first I wasn't sure if I really wanted to sign up for six whole month!! And even during some bad weeks in the beginning I could doubt my decision. But the more time we worked together the more I realized that it takes time to make changes and see differences. I learned how to listen to my body, when to push myself and when to let myself rest and knowing that I have done enough. I learned to have to take care of myself and my needs so I wouldn't be as dependent on others and so I can take care of and have more patience with my family. Thank you Shirley!

— Monica L. from Stockholm, Sweden

 

Shirley has helped me so much in my personal development. She helps me recognize my limiting beliefs, work through difficult emotions and challenges and empowers me to change my life for the better. She always asks the right questions and make me think, reflect, and feel inspired to change. Her patience and attentiveness are truly second to none. Just after 2 months of working with her, I can see the changes that are happening in my life: I become more confident, more intentional, and more aware of my thought and behavior patterns. I'm so grateful for having a coach like her and I'm so excited to see how much more I will transform my life in the next couple months, and I know that she's a big part of that.

— Clara D. from Toronto, CA

 

I have learned that everybody needs a coach. I have had over 30 years of business development and management experience but have benefitted from working with Shirley. I have become more focused, and am better prepared to face the inevitable distractions and roadblocks that we run into everyday. Her character allows me to open up about things I have shared with few others. She is sympathetic but holds me accountable. She’s focused but adaptable. I’m happy she’s my coach.

— D.S. from Vancouver, CA

CLIENT LOVE

I am sooo grateful for our past two sessions. I genuinely enjoy my day more, I feel so much more at ease, I actually have more space and feel grateful for my environment/ circumstances. Nothing had changed externally and that blows my mind. Thank you for teaching me. I can't wait to see where I am 6 months when this is how I feel just 4 sessions in.

— Jenny R. from Los Angeles, CA