Social media — my love/ hate relationship is definitely strong with this one. As a marketer and content creator online, I’ve struggled A LOT with feeling like I was controlled by social media for a long time.
Social media — my love/ hate relationship is definitely strong with this one. As a marketer and content creator online, I’ve struggled A LOT with feeling like I was controlled by social media for a long time.
Whenever a new year comes around, the internet will be bombarded with people listing resolutions, goals, and new declarations of how their new year is going to be different.
I love the high vibe and really appreciate everyone’s effort and desire to start fresh. Yet, I scroll through social media and wonder how many of these people actually achieved their resolutions by the end of the year. Turns out it’s a whooping 9.2 percent.
That’s a staggering low amount of people, and yet I’m not at all surprised. If being able to achieve your goals and accomplishing your dreams is this easy, everyone would be successful by now.
There are many reasons why people do not achieve their goals — and not having a proper goal setting system in place is definitely one of them.

Before you even start planning, understanding the reasons and motivation behind your goal is SO important. Very often people miss this step and jump straight into the planning process without realizing that the goal itself is actually not something they wanted to pursue in the first place.
Sign up for the goal setting with intention worksheet to get clarity on your goal:
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Some examples of a SMART-R goal:
One big goal may seem overwhelming if it takes one year to accomplish. You will feel very pressured and stressed out looking at the final goal all the time since it is a big leap.The trick is to break down your big goal into 4 smaller goals every 3 months.
Using the previous example, if you want to lose 50 lbs by the end of December, you would need to work on losing 13 pounds every 3 months. Now that number seems a lot more friendly and more approachable.
For the second example of working full time and earning $6000/month, your quarterly goal might look different each quarter.
For each quarterly goal, figure out which projects/ assignments you need to do in order to achieve that goal.
For example, in order to lose 13 pounds for the first quarter, your assignments might be:
This is the most tedious step, but very important. For each assignment, you have to break it even further into actionable tasks/ to-dos that you need to do.
The key is to list out every single task, even the small and tedious ones, so that you don’t even have to think about what you need to do to accomplish that project/ assignment.
If you are serious about taking action, you need to set deadlines for yourself and put those items onto your calendar! I like to use Asana for this, but you can put it on Google Calendar, or even on a traditional calendar/ planner book.
Bonus tip: If you are serious about achieving your goal, you should have a calendar dedicated to that goal only!
As you can see, you need to have a specific system in place (and dedication) to truly accomplish a big goal.
If you really want to achieve something that means a lot to you, you must be willing to make the extra effort and commit to do the things that most people are not willing to do. This includes spending time, making sacrifices, saying no to people and opportunities, and spending money to invest in yourself.
During the process of working toward that goal, there will also be other side benefits: feeling more in control of your life, feeling excited for your new change, and feeling like you have a purpose. To me, those are the best experiences you can have.
So why not take that leap and declare today that you’re going to plan and achieve the single most important goal for yourself this year?
Rooting for you,

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Okay let’s be honest here. Who here has ever set goals in the beginning of the year and already didn’t follow through by the time February arrives? Yep. Been there, done that!
So why was that so difficult? Why were we not able to achieve it? There are several reasons.