Fall in love with your life and take actions from feeling enough
No more trying to prove yourself first, before living your dream life today
Overcome self sabotage so you can uplift yourself and the world

Hey, I’m Shirley 👋
Certified life coach, tea addict, artist/ content creator.
In my 5+ years working with high achieving entrepreneurial leaders and creatives, I’ve helped dozens and dozens of people overcome their insecurities and step out of trauma survival patterns...
... so they can finally achieve more in less time, find fulfilment, and infuse their daily life with so much more love, ease and joy.
I believe it is my calling to guide people through their liberation journey to decondition from internal systems of oppression so they can finally COME ALIVE & THRIVE.
I promise you, there is nothing wrong with you.
You also don’t need to work harder or try harder (you’ve truly done enough)
What you need is to come back home to yourself and connect within to realign your intuition, your thoughts, your feelings, your energy…and start your transformation from the inside out.
1:1 Life & Success Coaching
Custom made life coaching 1:1 package according to your goals and desires.
Book a discovery session to discuss your vision, budget, and I'll create a custom plan together with you.
Inside this free discovery session we will:
- look at different areas of your life and discuss what's been holding you back
- break down conceptual big ideas into incremental, practical steps
- build a clear, exciting vision that lights you up & makes you inspired to live life
- answer any of your questions and concerns
- get to know each other and see if we're a good fit (if not, totally fine! I can help point you in the right direction)
FREE MASTERCLASS: OVERCOME PROCRASTINATION & PERFECTIONISM
How to get more done with ease and flow as an online creator
No, it's not because you're lazy. Or that you can't commit.
Your procrastination is simply a RESULT of deeper fears/ wounds that lie underneath.
Inside this 40 min masterclass, I dive into what's causing this unhealthy behavior of not taking action, solving for the root of these problems, and how to actually move past these obstacles so you can CONTINOUSLY create and show up for your art & work.
CLIENT LOVE
I always thought that overcoming my constant anxiety would take me years but after working with you for the past 6 months my life is so different! I actually can feel at peace and enjoy life as it comes instead of constantly being in fear. Even when I do have hard days now I know how to cope with it instead of spiraling like I used to. I’m proud of myself for making this big leap into life coaching. It was scary at first but I knew that I wanted to level up so that I can be ready to take on whatever comes my way. I think life coaching is like the fast pass in life!
— Brittany T. from Houston, US
FREE MEDITATION: HEAL YOUR RESISTANCE
Move forward without leaving your inner child behind
Are you forcing yourself to push through like an emotionless Asian tiger mom?
Using willpower to FORCE yourself to do things will only lead to eventual self-sabotage and burning out.
This way of doing work is simply not sustainable. Because right now, there is a resistance in the nervous system (aka a scared, hurt child within you) that desperately wants to be understood, soothed, and tended to.
Download this free meditation to help you heal and move through this resistance
CLIENT LOVE
Shir has a very wise soul when you are speaking with her she has a nurturing spirit that is non judgmental, you feel safe opening up to her. I was surprised being older that she would be able to relate or to have the experience to deal with “my issues” but this girl is like I said wiser beyond her years. I feel like she’s been doing this forever. I can’t stop saying enough nice things about her. She definitely found her calling in life and I’m so grateful she made the changes in her life to get here because I needed her! And trust me guys you will benefit from her too! You will love yourself for it.
— Diane T. from San Diego, US

CLIENT LOVE
For years, I read every personal growth book on the market seeking the answer to a simple question: What is wrong with me?
I was stuck, unable to understand why I couldn't achieve the things I most desire in my life - a writing career, a thriving income, a strong sense of self-worth. I found some answers in those books, but it wasn't enough to know the answers. By working with Shirley, I have had the chance to LIVE the answers, to practice them, and to change my energy. I now have compassion for the very human part of my brain that believes it can keep me safe by repeating the same thoughts and routines.
In a few months of working with Shirley, I have experienced a shift in awareness that has led me to make BIG decisions and move toward the vision I have of myself as an author.
— Stacey L. from Springfield, US

